Well, the time has come. I left Canada yesterday, my home for the last 2 years and am currently in sunny California. Let me tell you, if you thought writing a blog post in a coffee shop would be glamorous, you should try it in an airport. While I was sitting in Buffalo airport, overcome with boredom, I couldn’t help but reflect on my time in Toronto, and the things I can take away from this experience of living abroad. I know there are more, but here are 4 that I jotted down.
1. I don’t get home sick
Although I am missing Toronto already due to the fact that I am moving away for good, I don’t really understand the concept of being home sick. I can understand missing family, but for me, that’s where it ends. I consider myself to be a logical person, and I know that my family is only a flight or two away. I love travelling too much to let home sickness get in the way.
2. I am a traveller
When I left to go to Canada, my mum was not exactly thrilled about it. Letting her know that I was moving abroad only a week before I left, via a text message, was probably poor form on my part. I remember her finally accepting it and telling me to just go and “get it out of my system”. Has she never heard of the travel bug? Correct me if I’m wrong, but up to this point there is no known cure. Having lived abroad for 2 years has only confirmed that as long as I live I will probably want to travel.
3. I am resilient
When it comes to things I am passionate about, I find it hard to call it quits. This is not always a good thing, as sometimes you need to just cut your losses. However, in this situation, I think it really paid off. 2012 was a tough year, as I suffered an illness which affected me for much of the year. While some would find this difficult going through something like this on their own, for me I was simply upset that this could negatively impact my time in Canada. The thought of leaving however, never crossed my mind. I got through it and and am now continuing my travels.
4. The world can offer great opportunities
I was speaking to a girl in a bar a few weeks ago. As we were chatting while in line for the washrooms, she told me she wished she could do what I did and move to the other side of the world. I told her there was absolutely no reason why she couldn’t. She responded by advising me that she had rent and other bills she needed to pay. This is a cliche excuse and I responded by saying that those of us who do it, are in the same situation as her. Name one person who doesn’t have bills. The only difference is that I and many others have taken advantage of the opportunities which are presented to us. I am referring to things like work holiday visas, youth discount flights, overseas volunteer programs. The list goes on. The world is set up to encourage travel, so why not take advantage of it?





Great post John! Simple yet life-defining lessons you’ve learnt along the way which is lovely to read. I definitely agree with being a traveller – I’ve wel and truly caught the bug but thankfully my mum is really supportive and is proud of me. Can’t wait to hear about your further travels

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Yes, surprisingly my mum has turned around as time has gone on. I think facebook and skype help a lot.
I agree. Having excuses not to go travelling is the same as those people who make excuses for not going to the gym. It’s all about priorities and how much you want it!
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Your right Olivia. I guess people just prefer to spend their money elsewhere, which is perfectly fine. I guess its the same as me saying I wish I could purchase a brand new car. There is nothing stopping me, but I choose to spend money on other things.
Yes, yes, yes and yes.
The first time I lived abroad in Germany I did get homesick, but that got it all out of my system.
Agree with all the above!
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I found myself getting a little homesick a few days ago, after I left Toronto. But I think its because it was my home while living abroad, and i wont be returning.
You have the right attitude and positive approach! enjoy your adventures. Whatever you want in this life you can achieve, just do it.
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Thank Lyn. Always appreciate the positive reinforcement.
John you are really a good traveler and yes very much practical. I agree that there is no need to worry about family because they are only 1-2 flight away and you can return back home whenever you want.
Exactly right. Logic should always win out. haha
I absolutely agree with #1 and #5. I used to be so homesick but the more I travelled, the less I missed my home, my friends and family. Now I’m back in Poland once a year and it’s more than enough for me
LOL. There are many opportunities out there and the more you travel, the more you can learn and develop yourself. Great post!
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Definitely agree John, particularly number 3. Traveling isn’t for everyone. Some people are curious, but few will ever really embrace it.
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Your right. Not everyone feels the need to travel, and that is perfectly fine too.
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